December 3 2009, 12:56:31 #416 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
So, we're branching off a sex thread from the Q&A thread, as per @414's suggestion.
I guess we'll run this in the same manner as the last thread; answer the question above you and ask a question yourself.
First question: What is your biggest turn on in the opposite sex (or whatever sex you're attracted to)?
Replies: 71
December 3 2009, 18:05:41 #427 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Pretty much the fact that they're guys is good enough for me.
What do you think about anilingus?
December 3 2009, 18:13:17 #428 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I dunno. I've never tried it, and have little interest in doing it myself. If my girlfriend really wanted to try it though, I guess I'd give it a shot.
What do you think about pegging?
December 3 2009, 20:00:43 #431 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Sounds painful.
Are you attracted primarily to your own "race"/nationality or color, or another?
December 3 2009, 21:28:00 #433 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I tend to like paler skin, but It isn't at the top of my list (I am caucasian). It's not exactly preference towards a particular race, as I'm not as attracted to tan Caucasian people, but I tend to lean slighty towards Caucasian and Asian because of it.
How important are looks when deciding to to date, fuck, etc.?
December 3 2009, 21:48:06 #434 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Looks matter, but for dating at least personality is pretty important (guy here)
...same question :P
December 3 2009, 22:07:13 #435 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Yeah looks are pretty important to me, but I have very reasonable standards. To me, personality is an intregal part of attraciveness as well though, so that could make up for anything else I don't like.
What sort of birth control method do you use, if any?
December 3 2009, 22:09:08 #436 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Married, so for the most part we just pull out and hope.
Do you think preventing conception is the same as abortion?
December 3 2009, 22:35:28 #437 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
No, they're clearly not the same thing.
What's your favorite sex position and why?
December 3 2009, 22:44:33 #439 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Any position, but I really love being tied up, blindfolded and forced to take whatever my girlfriend wants to dish out.
Anyone else into bondage and/or light BDSM play?
December 3 2009, 23:00:27 #440 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I'm sure there are other people into that, but not this messenger.
What sorts of archetypes are you attracted to?
December 3 2009, 23:02:02 #441 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
HELL FUCKING YES. i like being tied down, tied up. bitten, scratched, slapped, punched.
How many people have you had sex with?
December 3 2009, 23:05:04 #443 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
One.
Since the question above went unanswered, I will give it another chance at life. What sorts of archetypes are you attracted to?
December 3 2009, 23:26:51 #448 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Sure thing. I will quote from Wikipedia. "Archetyoe refers to a generic version of a personality. In this sense 'mother figure' may be considered an archetype and may be identified in various characters with otherwise distinct (non-generic) personalities".
Does that help at all?
December 3 2009, 23:26:52 #449 [0 Agree] [-1 S] [0 T]
Sure thing. I will quote from Wikipedia. "Archetyoe refers to a generic version of a personality. In this sense 'mother figure' may be considered an archetype and may be identified in various characters with otherwise distinct (non-generic) personalities".
Does that help at all?
December 3 2009, 23:31:39 #452 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Ah, I get it. I thought it was something along those lines but I didn't want to answer without clarifying in case I was wrong, cause some people are mean when you don't catch on right away!
And I think I'd have to answer that I'm most attracted to the bad boy type. I didn't end up with one, but I think it's terribly appealing.
What about you?
December 4 2009, 00:00:18 #464 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
GOTH CHICKS!
How often do you watch porn (if ever) and are you male or female?
December 4 2009, 00:04:41 #465 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Anywhere from 2-5 times a week, and I'm a woman. I watch it with my husband whenever he's in the mood to, but I think I like it more than he does!
Do you think it's ok to flirt with other people even if you're in a relationship?
December 4 2009, 00:17:36 #466 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Nope, but I don't really know where the line is between polite conversation and flirting is. I'm not good at people or conversation.
Also, it's pretty cool that you watch porn with your husband. I should try that with my girlfriend some time.
Question time! How often do you masturbate? (please indicate gender)
December 4 2009, 08:58:40 #478 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
As often as I watch porn (I'm #465 up there).
How often do you have sex (or how often would you if you could)?
December 4 2009, 19:47:28 #491 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Once a week, maybe a little less. It's not something I have to have every day or anything.
Do you usually do foreplay before you actually get down to intercourse?
December 5 2009, 10:02:45 #496 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Rarely. If we do, it's pretty much me going down on my boyfriend before I jump on top of him. There are hardly any exceptions to this pattern. Sad...
What's something bizarre that you'd like to try sexually, but never would?
December 5 2009, 20:29:19 #506 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I seriously think it would be really hot to have sex with a dog. I would never do it for multiple reasons, but thinking about it turns me on regardless.
Anyone have any thoughts on oral sex?
December 5 2009, 22:37:49 #510 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Screwing dogs is messed up, wtf
My thoughts on oral sex = win, as long as things are clean.
What should the age of consent be?
December 5 2009, 22:44:30 #511 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I really think it should be atleast 18 in every state. Most 18 year olds could hardly be called "adults" and sex is not an ideal activity for children.
Do you ever feel weird asking and answering these kinds of questions and not knowing who you might be "talking" with?
December 5 2009, 23:06:20 #512 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@511 sometimes, mom.
Someone ask a question for me.
December 6 2009, 03:16:24 #514 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Okay, I will. What is your favorite position?
Doggy for sure. My girlfriend's favorite too. How lucky am I? Really lucky, that's how lucky.
What are your thoughts on casual sex?
December 6 2009, 11:49:31 #519 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
It can be potentially dangerous and I don't think it's the most fulfilling, but more power to you if that's what floats your boat.
What are your thoughts on getting vocal during sex (either yourself and/or your partner)?
December 6 2009, 11:57:47 #521 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Totally rocks. Kinda wish my dude would get a little more into it.
What's the craziest place you've done it?
December 6 2009, 14:54:13 #523 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Relevant to this thread:
http://www.montrealgazette.com/health/Study [link]+find+porn+virgins/2295732/story.html
tl;dr study says all men have looked at porn
December 6 2009, 18:19:57 #525 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@523 Is this supposed to be news? I thought we all already knew that.
Craziest place I've done it was in a bathroom. Nothing special, really.
What is something sexual that you have been wanting to try but have not tried yet?
December 6 2009, 22:37:46 #534 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I really want to be tied up and blindfolded. Dunno if my husband would be into that though. I kind of hinted at it a while ago and nothing happened :P
So um, husband... if you're reading this, go ahead!
December 6 2009, 22:38:04 #535 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
And the question is: How many sexual partners have you had?
December 6 2009, 22:49:11 #538 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Only the one. Things go well, may only ever be one.
What types of porn do you watch and from where do you get it? (i.e. videos, pics, hentai, flash games, erotic literature, etc. and from the internets, from a video store, on a subscription basis etc.)
December 6 2009, 22:56:01 #539 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I watch a little bit of everything. Some gay, some lesbian, some hentai, some BDSM stuff and other fetishes, and I especially like the amateur videos for the more "real" aspect. I don't like anything to be obviously fake.
Not so much into pictures... just not as fun as actually watching some action going down!
I used to go the erotic literature route, and sometimes still do, where I enjoy reading rape fantasies. I usually would rather watch something though.
And I get it all from free internet sites... much as I like it, I'm not paying for it!
Question: How young did you start having sex?
December 6 2009, 23:07:30 #541 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
>I especially like the amateur videos for the more "real" aspect. I don't like anything to be obviously fake.
Same here. I find that http://www.submityourflicks.com/ [link] has some good stuff.
Anyways, started having sex at 18.
What range around your own age would you be comfortable dating?
December 6 2009, 23:16:36 #544 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Never been terribly into guys younger than myself... usually dated 3-4 years older. My husband is the exception; he's just half a year older than me.
How do you hope your own kids will behave when it comes to sex and dating?
December 6 2009, 23:20:20 #546 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I expect my kids to be responsible for themselves at 16. Hopefully that means they'll choose not to screw for a few years after then.
What's the deal with rape fantasies?
December 6 2009, 23:28:12 #550 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I honestly have wondered the same thing! Rape is a horrible, horrible thing to have happen to you and I don't know why anyone would fantasize about it. Maybe I should have let someone else who is into it answer your question! I guess anyone can jump in and comment at any time though so they probably will at some point.
Do you think the girl or the guy should be the one responsible for the birth control?
December 6 2009, 23:29:28 #551 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@550 Both, ha
I can't think of a question though.
December 6 2009, 23:36:22 #557 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@546 Well a rape fantasy is totally different from wanting to be raped. Only a few disturbed people really want the implications of truly being raped in real life. A rape fantasy is mostly for those who get their kicks from being out of control and dominated like that, but there's always a "safe" word so that if they got uncomfortable, they COULD get out of it. They rarely want to be completely out of control. It's kind of hard to explain, but hopefully that helps!
Oh I guess I'll fill in a question too, since the last poster couldn't think of one.
What's something your partner does that turns you on the most?
December 6 2009, 23:45:16 #562 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
When she initiates sexual activity. It still fucking blows my mind that someone could find me attractive. Not that I think I'm unattractive or anything. I dunno. It's just weird to me. Also, when she orgasms it is fucking amazing.
How do you feel about your own sex in porn. Personally, I have standards for the men in porn as well as the women. If the guy is ugly, I just can't watch it.
December 7 2009, 00:01:26 #566 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@562 It took me a long time to accept that my wife is actually attracted to me.
December 7 2009, 00:01:53 #567 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Like a lot of girls, I can't stand fake looking women. I won't watch it if her boobs are bigger than her head and all body hair is either waxed or blond. I also don't like watching it if the chick is overweight or too skinny. I dunno, basically your average woman is cool.
As for the guys... I don't really care what they look like as long as they're not fat slobs. I tend to watch porn and pay more attention to the interaction than the actual looks of the individual participants.
Hmm... what do you do that turns your partner on the most?
December 7 2009, 01:05:53 #575 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@567 Looks like we have the same taste in women.
My girlfriend likes it best when I grab her hips from behind during sex. Simple but effective.
Let's go back to the one from before. What's something your partner does that turns you on the most?
December 7 2009, 09:19:26 #577 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I love it when he initiates sex (it's usually me :P) and gets aggressive.
Would you have sex in public?
December 7 2009, 11:11:17 #580 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I would, the husband wouldn't. Sooooo...
What's the record number of times you've had sex in one day?
December 7 2009, 17:33:57 #583 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@566 I'm kinda having the same thing with my g/f. I wouldn't say I have low self esteem, but then again......maybe I do.
How long did it take you to accept that she is really attracted to you? While you were dating or engaged or married?
December 7 2009, 19:58:10 #585 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@580 I think it was five but it may have been seven. Not entirely sure on that, lol.
What body type are you most attracted to?
December 7 2009, 22:43:15 #594 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I like someone I can hug without feeling any of their bones or internal organs. I don't like someone so obese that I can't wrap my arms completely around them. So yeah. Something in the middle.
And body hair on dudes is sexy.
December 7 2009, 22:43:43 #595 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Oh and a question!!!
Ummmmmm, are you attracted to Asians?
December 7 2009, 23:11:31 #601 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Nope. I think of Asian dudes as being small and wimpy :P
Would you ever have a threesome?
December 7 2009, 23:53:28 #607 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@601 I'd like to, but I never would. For one, the husband would want another chick in there and I would want another guy. So I mean technically it could be group sex, but that kind of throws the whole threesome dynamic out.
What was your first "time" like?
December 8 2009, 00:15:42 #608 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
It was really really awesome. We were really comfortable with each other and it felt natural. We talked a lot during it as well, which sounds bad, but it wasn't.
Also, good to know that body hair on dudes can be sexy. I was worried because I am getting progressively hairier, and I didn't know if that was a good thing.
Questoin: What is your opinion on using props or suchlike during sex?
December 8 2009, 10:59:11 #615 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@608 Well if you are ridiculously hairy and constantly being mistaken for an orangutan, that wouldn't be sexy. But I don't find the completely waxed dudes in the least attractive either... it just looks gay and stupid.
And props are a good idea when you want to mix things up a little. I actually want one of those foam wedges/other bizarre shapes that help with different positionings. Sounds fun. And sex toys rock. Basically anything that vibrates rocks!
Have you ever had sex with a virgin?
December 8 2009, 22:04:36 #619 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Nah I haven't found any!
Have you ever had sex in a car? If so, what was it like? If not, would you want to?
December 10 2009, 23:36:44 #675 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@619 Never have, totally want to. Husband doesn't though...
At what point in the relationship do you think you should add sex?
December 14 2009, 19:17:25 #741 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Whenever is right for you personally.
Have you ever had sex in a standing up position?
December 14 2009, 23:05:45 #743 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Nope, but I plan on it.
Do you like showering/bathing with your partner after sex?
December 15 2009, 10:32:37 #755 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Love it before or after, but our shower/bathtub is really too small to be comfortable.
Have you ever had sex in someone else's house?
December 19 2009, 22:43:36 #808 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@675 The point at which we are both firmly committed to one another is when sex is appropriate. After all, there's nothing quit like casual sex to totally screw up all the potential a really good friendship holds.
December 19 2009, 23:00:24 #814 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@755 Heh, whenever I answer any of these I end up saying, "I love it but the husband doesn't." That's a little depressing!
So... do you think that a s/o should make an attempt at doing something outside of their comfort zone if it's something that the other person is very interested in trying? Should it depend on the level of commitment involved in the relationship?
December 22 2009, 19:55:49 #901 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@814 yeah, spouses should try whatever the other person wants, but people who are just dating shouldn't have to do that.
what's your favorite masturbation technique?
December 22 2009, 20:05:57 #903 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@901 touching my penis hurr hurr
what sort of things would @814 be trying to get their partner to do?
December 24 2009, 01:03:29 #929 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
@903 So many things.
I want to watch said partner masturbate.
I want him to be very aggressive every now and then.
I want to have sex in the car with him.
I want to have sex in a more or less secluded but outdoor location.
I want him to pursue me and have to work for it, not just take for granted that I'm almost always in the mood.
I want him to do something crazy and unhesitatingly that is really out of character and unexpected.
What's your #1 fantasy that you would totally do if you had the chance?
February 1 2010, 00:11:03 #1182 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
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