December 18 2009, 11:35:52 #799 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
I'm married but I think I'm kind of getting a crush on another guy. It's not that serious and I would never act on it or anything like that, but I'm just not quite sure what to do. I get those butterfly feelings when he's around and I'm always thinking of him without even meaning to. It's even more awkward cause he's a friend of my husband's too........
Any suggestions? Should I tell my husband or is this one of those things I should just get over and keep to myself?
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December 18 2009, 16:16:42 #800 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Any thoughts would be great. I'm too embarrassed about this to ask for advice from my friends.
December 18 2009, 23:35:49 #804 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Would you want your husband to tell you about every chick he has a slight thing for?
December 19 2009, 00:31:20 #805 [1 Agree] [0 S] [1 T]
It's 'site' not 'cite'. Idiot.
I guess I wouldn't really want to know it if my husband had a crush on another woman. How do I get over it though? Coming from someone who still occasionally crushes on old flames......again, nothing serious and I would never act on it but the thoughts are still sometimes there. I just wish someone could tell me if this is normal or not.....do guys do this too?
December 19 2009, 01:40:12 #806 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
i think it's more that men are natural born sluts
for women its more emotional
December 19 2009, 22:29:07 #807 [0 Agree] [0 S] [0 T]
Okay, so "the thoughts are still sometimes there." Big deal. There's nothing wrong admitting to yourself, and your spouse, that you may feel attracted to somebody. If things are so precarious you can't do that, you've got issues that need mending, and they've got nothing to do with old crushes. Your marriage ought to be so focused and intense that how you feel toward your husband is light years ahead of an old flame. The fact that it isn't, indicates you're not quite on the team. Not that you're off the team, just that you're allowing other men to influence you emotionally in ways that YOU ought to reserve solely for your husband.